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 Author: SDF_Bricks View Messages Posted By SDF_Bricks
 Posted: Jan 19, 2024 23:14
 Subject: Quite a dilemma
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SDF_Bricks (296)

Location:  USA, Illinois
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I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?
 Author: Nubs_Select View Messages Posted By Nubs_Select
 Posted: Jan 19, 2024 23:20
 Subject: Re: Quite a dilemma
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Nubs_Select (3764)

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In General, SDF_Bricks writes:
  I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?

The one who bought it. If the other buyer really wanted it they could have placed
an order but now you are in a legally binding contract with the other buyer which
you have to fulfill over a causal buyer who likely wouldn’t not buy it even after
getting pictures
 Author: Yo_Yo_Flamingo View Messages Posted By Yo_Yo_Flamingo
 Posted: Jan 19, 2024 23:48
 Subject: Re: Quite a dilemma
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Yo_Yo_Flamingo (4561)

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In General, SDF_Bricks writes:
  I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?

One looks, one buys. It doesn't pay to be indecisive!
 Author: zorbanj View Messages Posted By zorbanj
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 00:15
 Subject: Re: Quite a dilemma
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zorbanj (813)

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The buyer who *actually bought* the set.

Most buyers who ask for photos are time wasters who don't buy.


In General, SDF_Bricks writes:
  I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 00:39
 Subject: Re: Quite a dilemma
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In General, SDF_Bricks writes:
  I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?

apply this scenario to dating..

the answer becomes very clear
 Author: UTLF View Messages Posted By UTLF
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 01:26
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 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 04:26
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1001bricks (52324)

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  apply this scenario to dating..

You pay people to date you?

To get a chance?
 Author: wildchicken13 View Messages Posted By wildchicken13
 Posted: Jan 24, 2024 15:01
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In General, UTLF writes:
  You pay people to date you?

Diamonds ain't cheap, ya know.
 
Part No: 30153  Name: Rock 1 x 1 Jewel 24 Facet
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30153 Rock 1 x 1 Jewel 24 Facet
Parts: Rock {Trans-Medium Blue}
Current items for sale new quantity average price: US $8.4713!
 Author: wildchicken13 View Messages Posted By wildchicken13
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 07:51
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In General, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  apply this scenario to dating..

the answer becomes very clear

My girlfriend should get the set.
 Author: randyf View Messages Posted By randyf
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 14:48
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In General, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  In General, SDF_Bricks writes:
  I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?

apply this scenario to dating..

the answer becomes very clear


Twelve days. You must be pouring the foundation by now.
 Author: yorbrick View Messages Posted By yorbrick
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 03:56
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yorbrick (1182)

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In General, SDF_Bricks writes:
  I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?

Definitely the one that bought it. The one wanting pictures would probably be
a PITA anyway.
 Author: StarBrick View Messages Posted By StarBrick
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 05:06
 Subject: Re: Quite a dilemma
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StarBrick (7065)

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In General, yorbrick writes:
  In General, SDF_Bricks writes:
  I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?

Definitely the one that bought it. The one wanting pictures would probably be
a PITA anyway.

Ouch.....
 Author: peregrinator View Messages Posted By peregrinator
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 08:16
 Subject: Re: Quite a dilemma
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peregrinator (774)

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In General, SDF_Bricks writes:
  I have a buyer from Korea interested in a small set (not too rare), and he wanted
to see pictures. In the middle of this, another member just went ahead and purchased
the set.

What is fair? Who should get the set?

The person who bought it.

If it's any consolation, most BL users who ask for pictures don't ultimately
buy anyway.
 Author: Saitobricks.ca View Messages Posted By Saitobricks.ca
 Posted: Jan 20, 2024 12:51
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Simple, snooze you loose.

Really it doesn’t make a difference who bought it. You still would have got the
same price for it.