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 Author: RubyGirl View Messages Posted By RubyGirl
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 16:03
 Subject: Message from stoplisted member
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RubyGirl (1183)

Location:  New Zealand, Wellington
Member Since Contact Type Status
Jun 1, 2015 Contact Member Seller
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Store Closed Store: Noname Bricks
Hi everyone, I have a message from a stoplisted member, is there a better option
than silence for handling it? I really do not want to "peel onions"
with this person again.
I doubt they know they are stoplisted.
 Author: Nubs_Select View Messages Posted By Nubs_Select
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 16:31
 Subject: Re: Message from stoplisted member
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Nubs_Select (4750)

Location:  Canada, Ontario
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Mar 15, 2016 Contact Member Seller
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Store: Nub's Select
In Selling, RubyGirl writes:
  Hi everyone, I have a message from a stoplisted member, is there a better option
than silence for handling it? I really do not want to "peel onions"
with this person again.
I doubt they know they are stoplisted.

if its harassment you can report them to the helpdesk if they are bypassing your
stop list, also if its by email you can block the sender/auto move the emails
to trash
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 16:50
 Subject: Re: Message from stoplisted member
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1001bricks (55554)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
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Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
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Store: 1001bricks
In Selling, RubyGirl writes:
  Hi everyone, I have a message from a stoplisted member, is there a better option
than silence for handling it? I really do not want to "peel onions"
with this person again.
I doubt they know they are stoplisted.

I'm not sure you can avoid a Contact message from someone in particular,
as long as you allow Contacts.

As a seller I woudn't neither disallow Contacts, you may lose legitimate
sales.

If its any form of harassment please DO report the member. Keep all proofs!

If NOT, then you could:

* tell them once you don't accept any business anymore,

* then simply ignore them and auto-trash the messages in your e-mail client/webmail.

Good luck, keep us informed?
 Author: Nubs_Select View Messages Posted By Nubs_Select
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 16:54
 Subject: Re: Message from stoplisted member
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Nubs_Select (4750)

Location:  Canada, Ontario
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Mar 15, 2016 Contact Member Seller
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Store: Nub's Select
In Selling, 1001bricks writes:
  In Selling, RubyGirl writes:
  Hi everyone, I have a message from a stoplisted member, is there a better option
than silence for handling it? I really do not want to "peel onions"
with this person again.
I doubt they know they are stoplisted.

I'm not sure you can avoid a Contact message from someone in particular,
as long as you allow Contacts.

As a seller I woudn't neither disallow Contacts, you may lose legitimate
sales.


even if disabled, buyers can still contact them from the contact tab in the store
or from the contact seller button on an order
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 16:56
 Subject: Re: Message from stoplisted member
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1001bricks (55554)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
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Store: 1001bricks
In Selling, Nubs_Select writes:
  In Selling, 1001bricks writes:
  In Selling, RubyGirl writes:
  Hi everyone, I have a message from a stoplisted member, is there a better option
than silence for handling it? I really do not want to "peel onions"
with this person again.
I doubt they know they are stoplisted.

I'm not sure you can avoid a Contact message from someone in particular,
as long as you allow Contacts.

As a seller I woudn't neither disallow Contacts, you may lose legitimate
sales.

even if disabled, buyers can still contact them from the contact tab in the store
or from the contact seller button on an order

Which is somewhere normal. You've got a public shop, you can't say "I
don't wish to be contacted". Otherwise they'd to implemnt the concept
of Private Shop (a Club?)...
 Author: Nubs_Select View Messages Posted By Nubs_Select
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 17:00
 Subject: Re: Message from stoplisted member
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Nubs_Select (4750)

Location:  Canada, Ontario
Member Since Contact Type Status
Mar 15, 2016 Contact Member Seller
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Store: Nub's Select
In Selling, 1001bricks writes:
  In Selling, Nubs_Select writes:
  In Selling, 1001bricks writes:
  In Selling, RubyGirl writes:
  Hi everyone, I have a message from a stoplisted member, is there a better option
than silence for handling it? I really do not want to "peel onions"
with this person again.
I doubt they know they are stoplisted.

I'm not sure you can avoid a Contact message from someone in particular,
as long as you allow Contacts.

As a seller I woudn't neither disallow Contacts, you may lose legitimate
sales.

even if disabled, buyers can still contact them from the contact tab in the store
or from the contact seller button on an order

Which is somewhere normal. You've got a public shop, you can't say "I
don't wish to be contacted". Otherwise they'd to implemnt the concept
of Private Shop (a Club?)...

indeed
 Author: SylvainLS View Messages Posted By SylvainLS
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 17:08
 Subject: Re: Message from stoplisted member
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SylvainLS (52)

Location:  France, Nouvelle-Aquitaine
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In Selling, 1001bricks writes:
  […]
Which is somewhere normal. You've got a public shop, you can't say "I
don't wish to be contacted". Otherwise they'd to implemnt the concept
of Private Shop (a Club?)...

Client: “Hi, can I enter?”
Bouncer: “Member card, please.”
Client: “Well, I don’t have one but I’d want to join the club.  How do I do that?”
Bouncer: “Don’t know, you need to ask inside.”
Client: “So… I can enter?”
Bouncer: “Member card, please.”
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 17:11
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1001bricks (55554)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
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Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: 1001bricks
In Selling, SylvainLS writes:
  In Selling, 1001bricks writes:
  […]
Which is somewhere normal. You've got a public shop, you can't say "I
don't wish to be contacted". Otherwise they'd to implemnt the concept
of Private Shop (a Club?)...

Client: “Hi, can I enter?”
Bouncer: “Member card, please.”
Client: “Well, I don’t have one but I’d want to join the club.  How do I do that?”
Bouncer: “Don’t know, you need to ask inside.”
Client: “So… I can enter?”
Bouncer: “Member card, please.”

Client: “I've got a password: Mustard!”
Bouncer: “You're welcome, please come in!”
 Author: RubyGirl View Messages Posted By RubyGirl
 Posted: Mar 27, 2025 20:06
 Subject: Re: Message from stoplisted member
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RubyGirl (1183)

Location:  New Zealand, Wellington
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Jun 1, 2015 Contact Member Seller
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Thanks everyone, can go forward with more confidence now


In Selling, RubyGirl writes:
  Hi everyone, I have a message from a stoplisted member, is there a better option
than silence for handling it? I really do not want to "peel onions"
with this person again.
I doubt they know they are stoplisted.