Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
I've had IRL stalkers several, dare I say many times and they usually
are people who doxed me online. No reason to not have an extra layer of "go
away" in use.
On ebay its common to share stoplists on discord and reddit to avoid problems
and scammers. Sellers often share stoplists and that advice has always worked
for me there, so I just carried on with it here. Heck, if I'm browsing feedback
and see a problem person, on the list they go.
There's too many sellers and buyers to really worry about it.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
I've had IRL stalkers several, dare I say many times and they usually
are people who doxed me online. No reason to not have an extra layer of "go
away" in use.
On ebay its common to share stoplists on discord and reddit to avoid problems
and scammers. Sellers often share stoplists and that advice has always worked
for me there, so I just carried on with it here. Heck, if I'm browsing feedback
and see a problem person, on the list they go.
There's too many sellers and buyers to really worry about it.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Same thing with me.
Yep.
Quick question, why?
What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Same thing with me.
Yep.
Quick question, why?
What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal
People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Same thing with me.
Yep.
Quick question, why?
What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal
People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Same thing with me.
Yep.
Quick question, why?
What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal
People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔
Insightful... Thanks
But when you persevere, the joy and fun of the experience and time that you share
together will far surpass the experience of fighting a hundred enemies.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Same thing with me.
Yep.
Quick question, why?
What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal
People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔
Insightful... Thanks
But when you persevere, the joy and fun of the experience and time that you share
together will far surpass the experience of fighting a hundred enemies.
I suppose. But I can tell you've not "fought enemies" not in the
true sense. There is something to that which only those that have will be able
to understand. Human nature which is immutable, has dark sides. Accept it to
understand better.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Same thing with me.
Yep.
Quick question, why?
What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal
People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔
Insightful... Thanks
But when you persevere, the joy and fun of the experience and time that you share
together will far surpass the experience of fighting a hundred enemies.
I suppose. But I can tell you've not "fought enemies" not in the
true sense. There is something to that which only those that have will be able
to understand. Human nature which is immutable, has dark sides. Accept it to
understand better.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.
Serious note here;
I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".
Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know
Same thing with me.
Yep.
Quick question, why?
What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal
People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔
Insightful... Thanks
But when you persevere, the joy and fun of the experience and time that you share
together will far surpass the experience of fighting a hundred enemies.
I suppose. But I can tell you've not "fought enemies" not in the
true sense. There is something to that which only those that have will be able
to understand. Human nature which is immutable, has dark sides. Accept it to
understand better.
So be bad so you know what bad is?
Don't be reductionistic now. No need to "be bad" to be able to accept
and by extension "understand better" the darker sides of our nature.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).
As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).
Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?
Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).
As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).
Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?
Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money
Unless im seeing something wrong that is the list of people YOU stop listed not
that have stop listed you
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).
As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).
Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?
Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money
Unless im seeing something wrong that is the list of people YOU stop listed not
that have stop listed you
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).
As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).
Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?
Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money
Unless im seeing something wrong that is the list of people YOU stop listed not
that have stop listed you
Wow - been here so long that i mustve forgotten I did that...
[…]
Wow - been here so long that i mustve forgotten I did that...
Thx
The confusion comes from the fact the link to see who stoplisted you is still
in My Activity for sellers… but it leads to the same page as your stoplist, with
a different parameter but it’s being ignored.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).
As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).
Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?
Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money
Unless im seeing something wrong that is the list of people YOU stop listed not
that have stop listed you
Wow - been here so long that i mustve forgotten I did that...
Thx
K, I just went thru all the feedback left for me from everyone and they're
all positive. And I found one from one of the 2 stores listed and their feedback
was very positive.
I'm starting to think I didn't add these to my blocklist, as I never
used it before and I certainly don't remember doing it.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).
As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).
Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?
Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money
Partly due to asking for a B2B transaction without VAT.
THis should be accepted, by law - but some in Europe don't want/care/know...
No one can be forced to do business with you (whether B2B or B2C). That's
the law and it's called freedom of contract. And the Stoplist is there to
implement this law.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
Consider it a badge of honor. I used to have 3 but I'm now down to 2 so
somebody must have changed their mind. But your comment here https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1460105
only focuses on part of it. There are people perusing the forum that might
stop list you just because of something you said. This is where mine came from
as I was asking questions to make sure I set my store up correctly.
Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
Consider it a badge of honor. I used to have 3 but I'm now down to 2 so
somebody must have changed their mind. But your comment here https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1460105
only focuses on part of it. There are people perusing the forum that might
stop list you just because of something you said. This is where mine came from
as I was asking questions to make sure I set my store up correctly.
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